Ah, I think we're now getting a better picture of your setup. I think we're now just differing in our lingo. You're not really looking to 'adjust the pressure the pump is producing' (probably capable of oodles of pressure if you just consider the pump and no relief). Rather, I think you're looking to adjust the relief pressure at which the pump blows by the relief if something deadheads: Which will happen periodically in a steering system when you turn the wheel to full stroke and it dead-ends. In that case, you want to limit the pressure with a relief.
Or to say it differently: The way you first mentioned it, it sounded like you wanted to limit the pressure the pump was producing all the time. And our replies (simplified) were more-or-less saying "Well, you shouldn't really be producing any pressure most of the time". But if it's rather that it's just causing issue when deadheading (when fully stroked), then that's just a case of needing to blow by the relief in these occasionally deadheaded instances, which is a typical setup.
Do you have a link to the pump you bought? Some pumps have a built-in relief. Some are adjustable, some are not. And some pumps don't have any relief at all and expect the installer to have their own relief. If your pump has a relief but is not adjustable, I suspect it's factory set to something very high (like 3000-3500 psi), and it's expected your system has a second relief that's adjusted properly for the equipment you're running. If your pump doesn't have any relief built in, you need to add one down-stream of the pump. Otherwise you'll blow out seals and possibly do more damage, because with no relief and a deadheading instance, the pump will just keep building pressure until something blows or breaks.
Once again I'm guessing here, but if you say it only leaks occasionally, I'd bet dollars to buttons it's only leaking when you fully stroke the wheel and deadhead it for a second every now and again. In which case it just needs a lower relief setting. It doesn't sound like your pump has an adjustable relief (and might not have any relief at all). If it's one of the more basic, off-the-shelf gear pumps, it probably doesn't have any relief. So it's probably just a case of getting an off-the-shelf relief, plumbing it to your pump output, and dialing down the pressure. The relief will have three ports: one inlet, one outlet to your steering valve, and one outlet dumping to tank.
Something like this would probably be the ticket. Should be lots of places where you can buy one for less than $100:
https://www.princessauto.com/en/adj...ImFmNBEM6magFIsBL3dA_ZNynadJ0SCRoCbLkQAvD_BwE