LOST MY DOGS--UPDATE

SKYBOW

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First I want to thank all of you who sent good wishes and support. This has been a rough 48 hours.
Early Sat AM my kids showed up to help look. It was 27 degrees and they all have good jobs but they gladly gave up their day off to help. We started looking at 8:30. We split into two teams. I needed to drive the 4 miles into town to get gas in the truck again and Jess and Josh were trying to follow the last tracks I had found. While I was driving Amy looked on the "wrong" side of the road. She asked if That was a deer killed on her side of the road? Of course it wasn't. It was or male Lab Bayley. We had him 4 years since my wife adopted him from the pound in Des Moines. He and our spayed female bonded instantly and became inseprable. He was a wonderful dog but an even greater friend...I don't have it in me to describe my loss.

After taking his body home, we returned to the spot where the dogs tried to cross the road. Amy and Jess drove both sides of the road and My son-in-law Josh and I tried to track Morgan. She left the highway after Bayley got hit and ran through a plowed field. There was no blood and her track appeared normal. We circled the field and found her track on the back side. Josh and I leap-frogged the track and followed it to the rear of the stone quarry. It was mainly brome grass with a few scattered patches of snow-very difficult tracking conditions. We would circle and cast ahead when we would lose the track in the grass. I saw a quarry road that lead down to better tracking conditions. I roamed out ahead figuring it would push us ahead by a huge amount. I was about 50 yards ahead of Josh when I saw Morgan sitting stone still beside a tree in the grass. I screamed at Josh to come and he thought I had found the track again ahead of him. Morgan never moved but sat like a stone. That is totally out of character for her. She never moved her head or flinched. The third time I screamed at him, Josh finally made it to my side. I pointed to the tree 40 yards ahead, and said, Tell me what you see and tell me I'm not dreaming. We ran like a couple of school kids to get to Morgan. She back to within 3/4ths of a mile from our house. She too had been hit and was limping severly on her back leg. She never moved a muscle until we were about 6 feet away then her tail gave her away. We got her home and to the vet. There is nothing broken or of lasting harm. Just some cuts and swelling. He said she was very lucky and that she was definitely hit too.

If my mid-twenties kids hadn't given up their day off to help me we wouldn't have found Bayley. I would still be in the timber tracking them IF I could. (I'm 55 and I can hardly move after two days of bushwacking). I would not have found Morgan alive today and who knows what I would have found tomorrow IF I found her at all. My kids really came through big time. They all eagerly busted brush and slid up and down snow and ice covered hills. They all three shouted till they were hoarse. They never gave up or never once complaigned. Thanks to them I found both dogs, one to lay to rest and one returned to our home safely. How do you say thanks to them. How do you tell them what their work, concern, and attitudes meant to you? How do you make them know how very proud you are of them? They have been truely awesome. We cried together like babies when we found Bayley beside the road. We also cried together when we found Morgan alive. I certainly could not have done this alone. Without them I would have nothing to report to you. I am truely blessed to have them in my life.
...................Every man should be so lucky to have a son-in-law and step-daughters like I have!!!

Thanks for indulging me this time on this forum my friends.....just had to share my day with you.

Michael
 
Michael...Having been a life time lover of not only dogs but pets in general, I empathize in the loss of one of your "friends" but also share in your joy of finding the other. I presently have four dogs and two cats. All found at separate locations, abandoned & starving by their previous owner(s). I commend you on your perseverance of searching. Sounds as if you have a great family. jrw...TX
 
Nothing beats good kids and good dogs. You've been richly blessed. Sorry for your loss, happy for your gains. Good kids come from good parenting. God bless you all. Wishing you the best for Morgan and the family. I've had many great dogs and four GREAT sons. All are educated, all are employed and all do all they can for their parents, which is an extra blessing, cause I'm "older than dirt". Redrev.
 
Hi Michael,

I'm glad that your female is back home and mostly well, and I'm truly sorry about your terrible loss.

Generally I feel that words of consolation of the "it could have been worse" variety are misguided, even if they are meant well. In this case, though, I think that a partly tragic resolution beats the lack of any resolution that sometimes occurs in lost dog situations. We may never fully get over the loss of a close friend, but death is, at least, inevitable and final. Disappearance, however, is an ongoing nightmare.

Two years ago our dog Pinky, who my wife and I loved more than any dog either of us had ever owned died through someone's carelessness or mistreatment at a vet's office while she was in their care. Very much to my surprise, my wife almost immediately began searching online for dogs resembling Pinky at animal shelters, pounds, and rescue sites in our region. I absolutely didn't know what to make of it. In just a day or two she found a dog at the Tacoma animal shelter that looked something like Pinky in just one picture. Actually she was a larger dog of a slightly different breed, with coloration that was similar but not the same, and a totally different personality. We adopted her. It was sort of a miracle how much it helped us get throught the sadness we felt to have the activities and problems of integrating a new dog into the household (four other dogs, two humans.) Of course, she never became Pinky as I suspect my wife secretly hoped that she would, but it didn't matter---the good was already done.

Saving an animal's life by bringing it home to replace one that's just died may not be right for everybody. What I have to say about it is that it would never have entered my mind to do that, but it turned out that it couldn't have been more right.

All the best, Stan
 
Thanks for the update. Was wondering how you came out. Sure sorry about the loss of your friend. At least you know what happened.
 
I just wanted to tell you I'm sorry for your loss. I've been there, and dealing with the loss of a beloved pet can be a tough road to go down. There's two kinds of people in this world; ones who say "it's just a dog", and ones who mourn with you. God bless you and your family.
 
I don't know any of you guys personally. But your concern and compassion has touched me deeply. Thanks for your friendship....there's just no other word for it. If any of you ever get to "the Bridges of Madison County" area here in Iowa, I would be honored fix you lunch,or buy you a beer.
Thanks guys
Michael
 
Sir, I am sorry for your loss, but happy that the other half of you got home.

Also, keep in mind that the old adage, "all good things must come to an end", will only result in many new things to come!
 
I hate that you lost one but at least you know what happened.

Before we moved to WV last Summer, our "pound puppy" Boston Terrier got lost. Our guys wear invisible fence type collars but apparently his battery was dead. "Gino" is about 14 years old, blind in one eye don't see real good outta the other one anyway, so he got lost.
I could have accepted finding him being hit in the road. I (and ALL my neighbors!) spent several days climbing through some of the roughest territory I've ever seen in central NC looking for a trace of him. The coyotes are bad there so we were loaded for bear. I was sick thinking that he needed me and I couldn't find him.
Thank God someone saw him wandering up the road probably 15 minutes after he wandered out of the yard and a few days later saw one of my posters! The woman who found him wouldn't give me her name, she wouldn't take money, she was just glad our boy was home!
Guess there's a reason I've always tried to take care of the strays that show up!
What goes around, comes around!
I'm sorry for your loss but at least you know it was an accident and it wasn't a neighbor.
Slip your puppy an extra "goodie" from me if you think of it.
We even had a stray horse for a while!
 
All dog's become a member of the family and will be in your family's hearts for ever as mine who pass by natural ways or by the Rock Island train chasing rabbits. We shall carry a cross in our hearts for the pets loss.
 
I'm sorry for your loss and glad that it wasn't worse. You asked how to thank your kids. I'm sure that by reading your post that saying thank you is is all they would want. You also said that you wondered if they know how proud you are of them. I'm thinking that they are the type that think more about helping that wondering if you are proud of them. If I were you, I'd thank God for such wonderful kids.
 
I was deeply saddened to hear about Bayley. At least now you have closure. And one thing for sure while he was with you he had a good life. We have many dangers for pets in our area, wildlife, machinery, ect, by far the most dangerous thing is a road. I was also sad to hear about your strange neighbor, I deer hunt too and I have never shot someones dog.
 
Man I feel bad for your loss. I lost my Annie (black Lab) to a car and the Lucy also a black lab to kidney failure. Keep your spirits up and look for another one, there's literally millions out there waiting for you. I have my "Leggie" (Legacy) now. She's a nitwit with the attention span of a fruit fly, chews everything up but we love her to death.
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Glad you at least got one of them home alive, It is really amazing how quick they become a part of our lives! I'm truly sorry that you had to lose the other!.
Some people don't what having good kids are, I think you know what they never will.
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Sorry to hear about Bayley. You sound like caring people. We need more of you in this world.

After I buried our last dog I pretty much gave up on having a dog anymore. The last two we had were with us about ten years each, and when they died it was so hard to let go of them that I decided I didn't want to go through the pain again. Good luck with Morgan and give her a hug for me. Jim
 
Mama always said, "When you're dog dies go get another puppy." A man shouldn't be without a dog, the most noble creature on earth.
 
Many years ago, a Flu shot ruined my chances of having a dog, since that shot made me allergic to dogs, big time! I can be in house with one for an hour, and then its time to leave! I get all choked up, eyes watering, sneezing, then the gagging starts, and i have to get outside!
I would like to have a dog, but the forgoing precludes that. We had a Doberman, but had to give it away!
But, your story brought tears to me eyes! I hope your other dog lives long, with out troubles!
So now, I'll go pet my cat, Fred, of whom i am not allergic!
 
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