Could use some advice guys. My soon to be sister in law is one of the meanest women you could meet but you wouldnt know by meeting her. She enjoys talking behind peoples back which includes my wife and I, and my wifes mother, not to mention anyone else she comes in contact with. It is not the fact that she talks about me, or my wife, or my m.i.l, we are adults and we can handle it, my problem is that she gets mean, real mean. My wife and I have had a difficult time having a baby, it is a difficult subject for me to talk about because my only wish in life is to have a child of my own and just the other day we found out that she said some nasty comments about our attempts to have a child and it boiled down to "we should just stop trying to have a family, its not going to happen for us." Folks, I come from a line of men and women that could care less about money, community status, material objects, etc..., the only important thing in life is family; taking care of family, being there for family at the drop of a hat, i know you all understand.
I would love to tell her off but here is the problem, I am afraid that she will not allow me to see my 3 year old nefew for months on end if I do this, she is that kind of dirt bag and she has done it to my MIL many times over the last 3 years. If she was a man I could deal with this in a completly different way but shes not so obviously its not even an option. I can't allow her to to continue this but at the same time I fear losing time with my nefew, any advice would be wonderful and I am truly grateful for it. thanks for listening, ~Anthony
I would love to tell her off but here is the problem, I am afraid that she will not allow me to see my 3 year old nefew for months on end if I do this, she is that kind of dirt bag and she has done it to my MIL many times over the last 3 years. If she was a man I could deal with this in a completly different way but shes not so obviously its not even an option. I can't allow her to to continue this but at the same time I fear losing time with my nefew, any advice would be wonderful and I am truly grateful for it. thanks for listening, ~Anthony